There’s nothing wrong with learning pickup lines, routines, time management systems, body language, and all that great stuff…but they are absolutely worthless if the “software” running in your head is incompatible with success. None of these external strategies can overcome your insecurities. They can’t overcome your preconceived notions. They can’t overcome your spiritual beliefs. They can’t overcome your low self-esteem that causes you to fumble the ball when it really counts.
The outer game is helpless before years of bad programming from your parents, friends, priests, and society.
These will have to be “de-programmed” and a new set of beliefs will have to be installed over them.