An interesting realization is that I've noticed the two layers to deal with. Concepts of opportunity and crisis. The bottom layer is going to be you generating your opportunities. If a person hustles, that will make some changes. If a person starts to neglect their affairs and neglect themselves, that person is going to create challenges and crisis.
It's not the only level and layer of operation, it is also a more random level of service. Where opportunities and crisis, regardless of how much you hustle or not, are still going to present themselves.
But there's randomness where the opportunities are still presenting themselves in. It's interesting when I was under pressure for one week that everything was collapsing. And in the midst of that one week, some phenomenal things took place aside from what I had created or orchestrated. I find it very interesting.
I remember I sent a message to a girl. Basically just saying what's up, and she replied back. Anyway, we were texting for like a day or two, and she sent me this message that says “I've been thinking about you lately. She put an emoji with the heart eyes.
She's never done that before. So basically, we haven't talked in a while. So I sent her an excellent text after that. Then she said she hopes I am doing well. And then I quit. I put a question mark on that text. She said, “I've been thinking about you.” But I sent a question mark asking if was that meant for me? Because I never called her.
I texted her, and I don't think she ever told me that. Then a lot of texting happened. So this is the part that is about respect. So I said honestly when she ignored my texts for a month, what was she talking about? Me?